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2008/2/20 Marriage advice 籌備婚禮的過程可算是兩人的情感考驗期. 也可算是更認識自己與對方的關鍵期.
前幾天在心靈雞湯書中看到這一段話, 讓我反省自己與人相處的盲點. Let your love be stronger than your hate or anger.
讓你的愛勝過恨意與怒氣 Learn the wisdom of compromise, for it is better to bend a little than to break.
學會妥協的智慧, 稍微彎曲一些總比折斷來得好. Believe the best rather than the worst.
往好處想,別往壞處想. People have a way of living up or down to your opinion of them.
你對他人的看法決定他們會成為怎樣的一個人. Remember that true friendship is the basis for any lasting relationship.
The person you choose to marry is deserving of the courtesies and kindness you bestow on your friends. 記住: 真正的友誼是所有長久關係的基礎. 你的另一半更值得你大方給予朋友間的敬意與慈愛. 這些話, 其實都是老生常談. 但遇到衝突後痛定思痛, 再來看這一些話, 才能真正領悟. 有時候衝突反倒是blessing in disguise.
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